My son's 3rd birthday

What can i say, once again ppl didn't show up, or forgot, or had no money to come. Even tho they knew about the party in advance. But it's all good, cause next year i'm not having a party for everyone, i might just do a Chuck E Cheese party, pay for like 4-5 kids and screw everyone else. Cause it's not fair that every year i throw a party, and ppl don't show up. I waste money and food that i shouldn't have to. But 2010 will be different, no more big parties, just some small get together and forget everyone. This year ppl who weren't invited showed up, with extra kids that i wasn't counting. I was doing so much that i didn't notice ppl coming in, or ppl leaving. It sucked. i wanted to see a couple of them. But whatever, it will change next year.